There was no such smokescreen among the middle-class boys, who were much better educated and usually had full-time jobs in mainstream society, in addition to their lucrative sidelines in the sex industry. Rather than denying their homosexuality, they tended to classify themselves as homosexual or bisexual, and chose to become involved in prostitution because they enjoyed it.
David, who is in his mids, has a "plush" two-bedroom apartment in Dublin's city centre. He's clean, good-looking and well-built with short, black hair, brown eyes and tanned skin, Evanna tells us. He spends a lot of money on clothes and is very well spoken, has a university degree and works part-time in a normal job while providing a massage service at his apartment on weekday afternoons. He's very polite and friendly, with an average, middle-class upbringing which he describes as "loving and supportive".
He says that 75 per cent of his clients are married: "A lot of married guys, all they want to be able to do is touch and feel another guy. They are generally confused about their sexuality. At the end of the day, most gay guys can perform with a girl. Even I have been with some girls. I have a lot of regulars whose sex life with their wives has failed to satisfy them, and I know there are a lot of frustrated women out there.
Evanna listened neutrally to such confessions and reported them without judgment in her book. Rather than analysing her subjects, she was left with more questions than answers about the male prostitutes, who "infuriate gardai, confound psychiatrists and bewilder legislators".
Calling for Ireland to confront this invisible profession, she believes there is a need for a single agency with the power, resources and ability to respond effectively to the diverse experiences and needs of men involved in prostitution. In the end, she takes a moral stand and states that male prostitution should be prevented, but that those already working the streets as rent boys deserve an outreach service. Did the whole experience change Evanna? More observant.
Confessions of a male escort
Eyes opened. I've left a bit of naivety behind that I'll never find again, but I think that's a good thing. His emails come via a Polish server. He tells me he came to Ireland six years ago to work as a qualified masseur. During one massage session in a top Dublin hotel, his English client, a year-old woman, offered to pay him for sex. On that day, I decided to become a male escort. It all sounds very Samantha, very 'Sex and the City', very text book. Today, Patric says he caters for affluent, modern, high-class women who lead busy lives but want the finer things in life.
I can't tell you who the clients are, I wouldn't want anything to happen to you or me. A number of places I visit specifically are Dalkey, Ranelagh and Malahide. He says women rarely want to be brought to dinner, but it's not just about sex either. Above all, he explains, a woman wants intimacy and to feel that the man focuses his attention on her.
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Some women treat it like a visit to the beauty salon or a massage. Every woman is different, but most start cautiously -- they email me and ask me how much, if they can see photos. She pays me a lot of money because I spend a lot of time with her. Sometimes, I go just to play golf with her. I also have a friend, an Irish woman who used to be very rich; she helps me to meet new rich women, she arranges for me to call at exhibitions and other social functions to meet them.
I know women who've slept with their bosses to get a good promotion at work. The world is ruled by money, power and sex, and if I'm going to hell for the work I do, I certainly won't be alone," Patric says. During my trawl through Ireland's online male escorts, I come across Mike, a single, fortysomething Clare man whose naturist-style photos look distinctly out of place among the soft-porn images posted by other escorts on one site. There he is in all his white Irish glory, posing on a rock by the sea.
No Calvin Klein boxers or spray tan in sight. Next to the ultra-groomed gay boys advertising near him, he seems ordinary -- a man next door doing something that you don't expect the man next door to be doing. I call him, posing as a potential punter.
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He chats easily, telling me he took up escorting 12 months ago after losing his job in a local factory. I see women from all over the country and I can survive on what I earn," he says. Most escorts I speak to assert that going to a hotel is safer for female clients, a theory I see no validity in. Then, I'll take you up to the room, have another talk and anything you want after that. Most women dress up to the nines to meet escorts; there's really no need, sure I'll be taking the clothes off you. Of course, behind the escorts' sales techniques and the innuendo, there are deeper issues involved.
It's a problem that's beginning to pop up in marriage-counselling ses-sions, as therapist Tony Moore from Relationships Ireland testifies. I had one couple where the use of a male escort by the wife was a major problem," he recalls. She had started using a male escort and used the same one all the time, which most women do for safety reasons. Her husband was shattered, just as most women are when they find out their husband has been playing away.
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